Jim is a good, decent guy.
Jim is at a party he was invited to. He spots a girl who is standing by herself at the celebration. She also spots Jim. She smiles at him and starts walking towards him. Jim starts to believe to himself, “Oh my God! She is so ‘hot’! I can’t believe she is coming over right here to speak to me! If only I could don’t forget that great ‘pick-up line’ that I study about somewhere.”
She continues to smile as she walks towards him and just as she reaches him, she reaches out her hand to shake Jim’s hand and says in a quite friendly voice, “Hi there. How are you? My name is Kelly. What is your name?”
Jim tries to bear in mind his name whilst shaking her hand! He ultimately remembers it and then replies in a nervous, low voice, “Oh ..yeah…Jim.”
Jim is now feeling fairly nervous simply because he just can’t remember ‘the world’s greatest choose-up line’ he read about someplace. He is certain that distinct choose-up line would function on ANY girl!
“Nice to meet you Jim,” Kelly replies in a friendly voice.
Jim is now pondering to himself, “She seems quite good and friendly, but she is so ‘hot’! She would never ever go out on a date with me! Why cannot I keep in mind that amazing choose-up line?”
An awkward silence develops but Kelly nonetheless continues to look at Jim and smile at him. By now, Jim is so nervous. All he can feel to say is, “Nicely,…see you later,” as he walks away from Kelly. Jim ends up leaving the celebration feeling frustrated at himself due to the fact he could not don’t forget ‘the world’s greatest pick-up line’ to use on Kelly.
Can any of you relate to Jim?
Sadly for Jim, he is unaware of his Genuine problem. His issue is not that he forgot such an amazing ‘pick-up line’. Jim’s dilemma has absolutely nothing at all to do with ANY pick-up line! Jim’s difficulty is his MINDSET when it comes to women he finds physically attractive. In Jim’s mind, HE has put ‘hot’ females effectively out of his reach. No wonder he feels he Wants pick-up lines!
Jim has convinced himself that ‘hot’ ladies will not go out on a date with him. He believes they are fully out of his reach. The irony is that he also believes the ‘pick-up line’ will aid him get the ‘hot’ girl! Jim appears to be confused! He believes ‘hot’ women will go on a date with him but he also believes ‘hot’ women Will not go out on a date with him! No wonder he is frustrated!
Jim’s mindset needs to adjust 1st. Then he will recognize that he does not Need pick-up lines, not even ‘the world’s greatest choose-up line!’
Girl with a hat.
By Julien.Belli on 2011-03-14 20:02:48